Something I/we don't talk about enough 🫣


Hello hello Reader ,

I want to share something a little personal with you today.

I know what it's like to cough, sneeze, laugh too hard, or chase the dog around the yard and feel that quiet embarrassment that so many of us carry around without ever saying out loud. Incontinence is one of those things women often live with in silence, assuming it's just part of the deal after having babies, or getting older, or simply being a woman with a busy body and a full life.

It doesn't have to be.

What I've come to understand, through years of practice and study, is that the pelvic floor is not something we have to simply accept as weakened or unreliable. It's something we can actually work with. Gently, consistently, and without a lot of drama. I know because over the course of the last 3-4 years, this work has genuinely changed my life.

This month inside the AUM@home Community, we've been exploring the theme of the Core & Pelvic Floor. In each class, I've shared bits and pieces of my own pelvic floor rehabilitation and core strengthening practices that have helped me almost completely overcome it. We've moved through inner thigh strengthening, Yin twists that support digestion and elimination, breathwork practices that tone from the inside out, and this week, something called Ashwini Mudra.

Ashwini Mudra is a yogic practice of rhythmic pelvic floor contraction and release, woven together with the breath. It is quiet, subtle, and something you can do anywhere. Nobody around you will even know. And practiced consistently alongside everything else we've been building this month, it genuinely delivers.

All joking aside, if you or anyone else you know has experience the dread or embarrassment of leaking in the worst possible moments, I'd love for you to see and explore the practices for yourself.

Get started today! Your first 7-days are free

See you on the mat soon!

Michelle

AUM@home

At AUM@home, you will find practical tools and time-tested wisdom to support your health, energy, and sense of rhythm, even inside a full and complicated life. Through Yoga, Ayurveda, and seasonal self-care, I help women slow down, listen to what their bodies are actually saying, and build practices that are real enough to stick.Whether you are craving more calm, more clarity, or simply a way back to yourself, there is a path here for you. Not a perfect one. A real one, that meets you exactly where you are.Explore classes, courses, and seasonal offerings designed for women who are navigating work, family, change, and the quiet longing to feel more at home in their own lives.Start where you are. I will meet you there.

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